Married, many girls do not think about how to build a family life. Perhaps in this lies the reason for such a high percentage of divorces? We offer you a proven formula for family happiness! 1. Spend time with each other. If you do not regularly communicate (both in traditional and in an intimate sense of the word) - the marriage will not last long. Get in the habit of at least half an hour every night, and at least one full day a month to give each other.
2. Find a balance between dependence and independence, and hold it. Tell your husband that you need one, but not "Saw" and it do not stop - it might scare him.
3. If you want a man to listen to your advice - do not argue with him, and expresses its appreciation when he does. And do not overload it with information - otherwise it will simply stop listening.
4. If you do not like something in the bed - tactfully tell us about it, and as soon as possible. If you do this after several years of living together, your man might be offended at you instead of being tackled.
And not restricted to a simple statement of the fact that you are not satisfied with sexual life -'ll show her husband that he should do so that you can reach orgasm.
5. Smile more often. So you will not only improve the climate in the family, but also you can be sure that her husband is always a pleasure to return home.
6. Learn to love a man, despite his habit. Of course, from some of the costs of her husband and wean (although this should happen very rarely), but if you irritate some detail, better try to get used to them. You do not want your husband you perceived as "mama"?
7. Do not be silent, if you have a concern. Hidden resentment can silently destroy a family and restore peace and love will be very difficult. Talk about your problems and ask the man to help you solve it. But, of course, you should not do it every day. If the problem you're having so often better to turn to a psychologist, not "merge" the negative of her husband.
8. Sometimes, when your husband is doing something "not the" best solution seems to punishment. Do you think that so he can understand how to act should not be. But in reality nothing good in this manner you will not get. Doing the opposite - encourage and reward him when he does something the way you want, and ignore those things, you do not like.
9. One of the most common causes of family conflict - is money. In order to avoid unnecessary quarrels, advance discuss how the budget will be formed in your family. This solution should get you both.
10. Divide household chores. Not rely "at random". Make a list of all the household chores and discuss with her husband, who among you will be responsible for that. Then in the future you will have much less reason to quarrel.
Monday, November 23, 2009
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